If you grow
high in your life you need leave the some things that will draw you back words
otherwise cannot move forward in your life. For while breathing you cannot only
take oxygen you need to leave carbon dioxide too. That for the growth in your
life giving up certain things is as important as taking up good things.
There are 10
certain things that you need to give up to move forward
1. Letting the opinions of other control your life:
People in the world know about what you has done but they
what you have done to achieve it. Take the opinion of others like only a
suggestion but not as the order or an obligation because at the end decision of
you matters how you should be. You need to live the life for yourself but not
for others.
2. The shame of failure:
Some time you some time you fail. Failures are most common in
any one’s life, even most successful person in the world my come across
failures in his life. The matter is how you take the failure, you need to
accept the failure come out of it and work for the success taking it as the
lesson. Failure is past it should not show its impact on the present scenario.
If you failed in the past it doesn’t mean that you fail in present also because
future is not same as the present
3. Being indecisive about your passion:
You
cannot from where you are until you decide where you want to be. It is all about finding
what you are passionate for and pursuing it. Passion energizes you , if you are
not passionate it will low your energy
and makes you unproductive. Energy is the most important weapon for a
successful person .So, start figuring out what you want and work for it
passionately.
4. Procrastinating on the goals that matter you:
Decision need to be taken in any one’s life that taking what
we have or work for what we want. Always follow your goal, don’t give up trying
for what you want. If you are dedicated and loving trying for what you want
nothing could go wrong. Always remember there is no thing called tomorrow whatever
you want to do it today.
5. Choosing to do nothing:
You do not get opportunity of choosing your
death or birth; you only get the opportunity to choose how to live, right now.
Every day there is a new opportunity to choose something. Choose to change your
way of thinking. Choose to change the mind from negative to positive. Choose to
enlighten your life and stop being insecure and doubtful about your life.
6. You need to be right:
If you think
always to be right eventually you are wrong. Always aim for the success but
don’t make your right to be wrong. This will lose your ability learn new
things.
7. Running from the problems that are to be fixed:
We ourselves
make our life harder than it has to be. Difficulties start when we don t do the
things that we need to do. Stop running from the problem and face the problem.
Do all things that are need to be solved rather not doing anything moving away
from it.
8. Making excuses rather than decision:
Mistake is
not a failure until you refuse to correct it. Failure arises because if the
person make the excuse instead of taking decision. For example you could not
able wake up early in the morning, you need take that is your mistake rather
than giving excuse of late sleep in night etc.
9. Overlooking the positive points in your life:
What you see
entirely depends upon the how you see. Always strive for the best and live the
rest. Think always about what you have and what you have done rather than
brooding over what you don’t have .Your life would become difficult when you
are not thankful about what you have.
10. Not appreciating the present moment:
We need to
appreciate the every moment of our life because at the end of the day we won’t
remember the days we only remember the moment. We often try to achieve the big
things in the life but most of the part of the life is made of the little
things. It is quite guaranteed that when you achieve anything, then start for
another achievement starts.
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